These unspoken words lead to misunderstandings and tension later on. Therefore, whether it is a love marriage or an arranged marriage, it is very important to communicate openly before marriage.
Be sure to discuss these important points before marriage:
First, realize that you both share the same ideas about what you want for the future – career, children, place to live.
A strong relationship is formed when both partners respect each other’s opinions, decisions and independence. Be careful if you notice neglect or control in the beginning.
3. Income and expenses
It is important to have an honest discussion about salary, monthly expenses, savings habits and budget. Hiding income or expenses undermines trust.
If you have taken a study, personal or home loan, disclose it in advance. Plan together for EMIs and future obligations.
After marriage, you may often have to provide financial support to relatives or family members. If it is not decided in advance whether to provide such support, and to what extent, it can lead to conflict later.
Trust is important, but an individual’s right to personal savings must also be understood. Discuss this openly over time.
It is better to disclose any chronic illness or special need upfront than to hide it.
If there is a difference between the two in diet, travel, social life and daily routine, later reconciliation can be difficult. Open communication and honest decisions make a marriage stronger and happier.
If you are going to get married, check these things about your partner, otherwise you will regret later…